{"id":308,"date":"2019-05-16T13:00:55","date_gmt":"2019-05-16T13:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.nomadicmatt.com\/?p=170696"},"modified":"2019-05-16T13:00:55","modified_gmt":"2019-05-16T13:00:55","slug":"rediscovering-the-lost-art-of-travel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ourfunjourney.com\/index.php\/2019\/05\/16\/rediscovering-the-lost-art-of-travel\/","title":{"rendered":"Rediscovering the Lost Art of Travel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/media.nomadicmatt.com\/2019\/bike_mezo.jpg\" alt=\"a man on a bicycle in Mez\u00f6ber\u00e9ny\" \/><br \/>\n<strong>Posted:<\/strong> 5\/16\/2019 | May 16th, 2019<\/p>\n<p><em>Seth Kugel is the former Frugal Traveler columnist for the New York Times and author of the new <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2KYRIcu\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" >Rediscovering Travel: A Guide for the Globally Curious<\/a>, from which this is adapted. I&#8217;ve known him for years and our travel philosophy dovetails a lot. I read his book last year and thought &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nomadicmatt.com\/travel-blogs\/my-favorite-books-of-2018-so-far\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" >If I were ever to write a book on the state of the travel industry, this is the book I would write!<\/a>&#8221; It&#8217;s a great book and today, Seth excerpted part of the book for us!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Stenciled in white block letters on a dreary cement wall in Mez\u00f6ber\u00e9ny, a tidy but fraying town of twelve thousand in the hyperbolically named Great Hungarian Plain, appeared the word:<\/p>\n<p><strong>SZESZF\u00d6ZDE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hours earlier, in the overcast predawn hours of a nippy January day, I had stumbled off the Bucharest-to-Budapest train to see what it would be like to spend the weekend in the opposite of a tourist destination. Mez\u00f6ber\u00e9ny was not just absent from guidebooks \u2014 it did not have a single restaurant, hotel, or activity listed on TripAdvisor, something that cannot be said for Mbabara, Uganda, or Dalanzadgad, Mongolia. I did have some info on the town, though, thanks to its municipal website: resident J\u00f3zsef Hal\u00e1sz had recently celebrated his ninetieth birthday. <\/p>\n<p>Or that\u2019s what Google Translate told me. Hungarian is a Uralic language, more closely related to the output you might get falling asleep on a keyboard than to English or German or French. That makes even basic comprehension a challenge, as I found as soon as I rushed from the train to the station\u2019s restrooms and faced the urgent need to choose between two doors: <em>F\u00c9RFI<\/em> and <em>N\u00d6I<\/em>. The authorities had apparently saved a few forints by not splurging on stick-figure signs. <\/p>\n<p>The day had been born cold and gray and stayed that way as I walked through the town, slowly getting my bearings, intrigued by the pre-war, pre-Communist homes and the more than occasional bike rider \u2014 there were almost more bikes than cars \u2014 who waved hello. But then a winter drizzle took up, causing an abrupt decline in the number of cyclists even as the number of wandering American visitors held steady at one. To me, a travel day that turns rainy is like a piece of chocolate I\u2019ve dropped on the floor: it\u2019s significantly less appealing, but I\u2019ll be damned if I\u2019m going to throw it away. <\/p>\n<p>It was in the first minutes of rain that I came across that stenciled sign on an otherwise residential street. Beyond the wall, down a cracking, now puddle-pocked driveway, were a dozen or so plastic barrels lined up like nuclear-waste drums. Beyond them, maybe a hundred feet from where I stood, was a one-story L-shaped building. What was this place? Well, SZESZF\u00d6ZDE, apparently. But what was that?<\/p>\n<p>In the old days (say, 2009), I would have pulled out an English-Hungarian phrase book or pocket dictionary, but instead, I activated international roaming on my phone, carefully spelled out S-Z-E-S- Z-F-O-Z-D-E, and tapped Go. <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/media.nomadicmatt.com\/2019\/mezoberenydistillery.jpg\" alt=\"Szeszf\u00f6de distillery in Mez\u00f6ber\u00e9ny, Hungary\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The less-than-lightning speed of Great Hungarian Plain mobile service provided a dramatic pause. And then came my answer: <\/p>\n<p><strong>DISTILLERY<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t say. <\/p>\n<p>I would have guessed PRIVATE PROPERTY maybe, or DANGER\u2014STAY OUT, or MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS, YOU MEDDLING FOREIGNER! But a distillery? A wave of adrenaline washed down my torso as my lips curled into a dumb-luck smile. <\/p>\n<p>Two rather gruff-looking men emerged from the door, the older one smoking a cigarette and wearing a sweater and work-stained trousers that suggested Warsaw Pact 1986 more than modern-day European Union. I waved to them, pointed to the bulky Canon 7D hanging from my neck, and then to the building. Old-school Google Translate. <\/p>\n<p>They waved me in and gave me a tour. <\/p>\n<p>Inside the ancient but fully functioning distillery, the men let me take pictures as they gave me a vaguely intelligible lesson via pointing, expressive looks, and smartphone-translated Hungarian, on how p\u00e1linka \u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nomadicmatt.com\/travel-guides\/hungary-travel-guide\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" >Hungarian<\/a> fruit brandy \u2014 was made. <\/p>\n<p>Those barrels I had seen outside, it turned out, were full of fermenting pear and grape and apple juices. Inside, it was distilled somehow through a looping and tangled system of pipes running out of tin tanks up and along the walls. It looked like the laboratory of a mad scientist with a penchant for tacky linoleum flooring. <\/p>\n<p>As they led me around, I engaged in that most intrinsic of travel activities: trying to see the world from the vantage point of someone utterly different from me. What was their life like? Had they traveled? Who were their parents and grandparents? The language barrier that did not allow them to answer did not stop me from wondering. <\/p>\n<p>After soaking in every rusty detail and every glint of pride in the men\u2019s tired eyes, I typed, \u201cCome visit me in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nomadicmatt.com\/travel-blogs\/can-introverts-successfully-travel-solo\/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" >New York<\/a>\u201d into Google Translate \u2014 laughs all around \u2014 then headed back onto the drizzly streets of Mez\u00f6ber\u00e9ny, utterly elated. <\/p>\n<p>What was so great about this moment? Sure, the <em>szeszf\u00f6zde<\/em> was a neat little story for friends, and in my case, worth a few paragraphs in the newspaper. But wasn\u2019t it just a grimy business making local hooch in a town that even most Hungarians would classify as the middle of nowhere? <\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/media.nomadicmatt.com\/2019\/hungary_distillery.jpg\" alt=\"a man smokes a cigarette at the Szeszf\u00f6de distillery in Mez\u00f6ber\u00e9ny, Hungary\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It was a great moment because I discovered it. Not an earth-shattering discovery in the sense of a cure for AIDS or a previously unknown species of poison-spitting neon frog the size of a pinky nail. But it was 100 percent unexpected, 100 percent real, and 100 percent mine. <\/p>\n<p>Discovery used to be the lifeblood of travel, at least for those of us who shun tour-bus groups and all-inclusive resorts. We used to leave home knowing relatively little about our destination \u2014 perhaps with some highlighted guidebook pages denoting major attractions and local tipping etiquette, a list of tips culled from well-traveled friends, or articles copied and pasted into a Word document. For the ambitious, maybe a notional feel for the local history or culture gleaned pre-trip from a historical novel. <\/p>\n<p>Beyond that, we were on our own. <\/p>\n<p>Paper guidebooks frozen in time helped us along, as did pamphlets and paper maps from tourist information booths and tips from a hotel concierge. Earlier this century, Google searches in internet caf\u00e9s also lent a hand. But otherwise, there was no choice: You decided what to do with your own eyes and ears, by wandering, by initiating human-to-human contact. Tips came from hearing fellow travelers\u2019 stories over hostel or (non-Air) B&#038;B breakfasts, entering a shop to ask directions and ending up in a conversation with the owner, or catching a whiff of fresh bread or sizzling chilies and following your nose. <\/p>\n<p>Of course, all that still happens today \u2014 but only if you really go out of your way to make it happen. Not only is nearly every place in the world documented to within an inch of its life but that documentation \u2014 which comes dressed as both fact and opinion \u2014 is overwhelmingly and immediately available, thanks to pervasive technology. That\u2019s great for many things in life \u2014 medical information, how-to videos, shorter commutes. But don\u2019t we travel to break our routine? To experience the unexpected? To let the world delight us? <\/p>\n<p>If we do, we have a funny way of showing it. We pore over online reviews for weeks, plan days down to the half hour, and then let GPS and the collected wisdom of the unwise lead us blindly. We mean well \u2014 no one wants to have a romantic dinner go wrong or to get lost and miss out on a \u201cmust-see attraction\u201d or to risk chaos by failing to keep the kids entertained for three minutes. <\/p>\n<p>But isn\u2019t that just a digital version of the old-fashioned group tour? Well, almost, except that on the bus tour, you actually get to meet the person whose advice you\u2019re taking. <\/p>\n<p>One of my most ironclad rules of travel is this: the number of visitors a place receives is inversely related to how nice locals are to those visitors. Mez\u00f6ber\u00e9ny, as far as I knew, had received precisely no foreign tourists ever. It was the anti-Paris, and this distillery the anti-Louvre. <\/p>\n<p>People who inhabit the still-plentiful tourist-free swaths of the planet tend to be not only just nicer but more curious. They say a bear in the wild is just as scared of you as you are of it. I say people in places where outsiders rarely go are just as curious about visitors as visitors are about them. The question is not why the distillery workers invited me \u2014 a camera-toting, gibberish-talking stranger \u2014 in for a tour, it\u2019s why wouldn\u2019t they? If it were me, I\u2019d be thinking: \u201cWhat is this odd foreigner doing outside our <em>szeszf\u00f6zde<\/em> with a camera? Wait till I tell the kids! And by the way, isn\u2019t it about time we took a break?\u201d <\/p>\n<p>More importantly, is it possible that stumbling upon a dank distillery might be just as thrilling as a tour of one of the world\u2019s great monuments? Did the surge of emotion I felt when the word distillery popped onto my screen match what I felt when I first glanced up at the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel? <\/p>\n<p>Probably not, although I remember the distillery moment quite precisely and barely recall what I felt at the Sistine Chapel. Why? Because although Michelangelo\u2019s prophets and sibyls and biblical re-creations are several trillion times lovelier than rusty pipes in a concrete building reeking of fermented fruit, I had seen them before in photos, heard professors talk about them, and read other travelers\u2019 accounts as I sought the best times to avoid crowds. <\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I believe it is time we rediscover travel and recognize the value of what an overdocumented world has taken away: the delight of making things happen on your own. <\/p>\n<p><center>***<\/center><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2KYRIcu\"  rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float: left; margin: 5px 10px 0px 0px;\" src=\"http:\/\/media.nomadicmatt.com\/2019\/rediscovering_travel.jpg\" alt=\"Rediscovering Travel: A Guide for the Globally Curious\" width=\"210\" \/><\/a>Seth is the former Frugal Traveler columnist for the New York Times and author of the new <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2KYRIcu\"><em>Rediscovering Travel: A Guide for the Globally Curious<\/em><\/a>, from which this is adapted. <\/p>\n<p>In this book, Kugel challenges the modern travel industry with a determination to reignite humanity\u2019s age-old sense of adventure that has virtually been vanquished in this spontaneity-obliterating digital age. 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My favorite companies that offer the best service and value are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.worldnomads.com\/lovedby\/nomadic-matt?affiliate=nmts&amp;subId=brandlink&amp;affiliateTrackingId=0fe898ceef264503a88f74f4bbc7bb5b&amp;utm_source=nmts&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_campaign=Affiliate&amp;utm_content=brandlink\"  rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">World Nomads<\/a> (for everyone below 70)<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.insuremytrip.com\/?linkid=GB841615\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" >Insure My Trip<\/a> (for those over 70)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Looking for the best companies to save money with?<\/strong><br \/>\nCheck out my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nomadicmatt.com\/travel-resources\/\"  rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">resource page<\/a> for the best companies to use when you travel! I list all the ones I use to save money when I travel &#8211; and that will save you time and money too! <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>The post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nomadicmatt.com\/travel-blogs\/art-of-travel\/\">Rediscovering the Lost Art of Travel<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nomadicmatt.com\/\">Nomadic Matt&#039;s Travel Site<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Posted: 5\/16\/2019 | May 16th, 2019 Seth Kugel is the former Frugal Traveler columnist for the New York Times and author of the new Rediscovering Travel: A Guide for the Globally Curious, from which this is adapted. I&rsquo;ve known him for years and our travel philosophy dovetails a lot. 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